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My message to people,who have friends,or family members who (si)
My message to these people is never to give up on them.
When I did self injury,I always felt alone,and I felt as though I wasent in control of my life,that my saddnes was taking over my life.
If you have a friend who does self injury PLEASE
take my advise,don't make them talk about it if they don't want to at the time.Its a hard,and imbarrising battle,to have to fight,I'm not saying,that you should just forget about it,and let them kill themselvs(NOT AT ALL!)
I am saying,that you should let them know they are not alone,and that you are there for them,to support,and comport them,in anyway,you can,if you come out with this,they might turn you away,but,don't give up on them.
They only turned you away,cause they was too imbarresed,and ashamed of themselvs,for doing it.
I think the best thing you can do for a friend who self injurs,is just to be with them,and do your best to let them know,you care about them.
Watch tv with them,or listen to music,with them,mabey even go to the movies with them,all these things,will show the person you care about them.
Its a good idea to tell the person,that you care about them,if your hard at words,then write it,but in any case MAKE SHURE THEY KNOW.
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What is self injury?
Self injury,is one of the side affects,of having depression,when a person gets so sad,and depressed,they want to cry constantly.
By cutting they let thier blood cry for them.
Many people,(THINK) they are doing no harm by cutting.But in reality they are.I almost died from cutting,I KNOW!
there are many,many ways people do self injury,one is cutting with a razor,or knife,some do what is called burning.
Using a lighter to burn the skin.
This is also a form of self injury.
Some also pull out toenails,or fingernails.
If you know somone who self injurys,It is NOT cause they have mental problems,its cause of depression.
Please try to get them help,but if they refuse,don't force them to go anyway,this will only make depression worse,in turn self injury,can turn into suicide.
When you sign my message board there are three diffrent subjects feel free to post your message to any of the three.
Thanks
Glenda
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